Monday, December 21, 2015

New Transfer, CRAZIEST WEEK EVER!!, & Awesome Week!

3 weeks of letters.  He'll be writing again today but I didn't want to wait.  It's already been pretty crazy with the Christmas season.

Anyhow... He made it to Visalia safely!  (Thank you to all of our CFM family for texting me to let me know where he was and thanks for Charlie and his detective work. LOL  We all make a great team ;)  So nice to have connections!)  He misses Madera terribly but he is loving Visalia already.   I can't say enough how blessed I am to have good members around him that know there is a Momma at home stressing out!  HAHAHA!!  ...He is already having great success.  He does wherever he goes.  I'm super proud of him!!

P.S.  He is still a goof ball!  His 21st birthday is Sunday and he still is young at heart!  I hope he never loses that :)  I love his guts.  Hope he has an Awesome Christmas and a very Happy Birthday ;)


Sent to me by a member when he first arrived in Visalia, Her 6 year old son thinks they are brothers :)


Pictures sent to me from the same member

The member said "He's such a good kid and such a fashionista!!"  LOL  I laughed HARD!!



Volleyball activity

Missionary farewell. Elder Quintana went home on the 2nd

Doing stake correlation late at night... So much fun....

Doing stake correlation late at night... So much fun....

Pic we just took.  Rockin' the ugly sweaters

FHE





Our attempts to practice being missionaries to a football :)

Being Goofy

Uhhhh Yeah

HaHaHa
Dinner at C.'s


My boy F!!

F. got caked!

Group dinner at a members for Thanksgiving

Group pic at the dinner

Nov. 30th

New transfer. Going to get ready to serve as for years!

So yes transfers were this week and just for everyone's information I have no idea where I'm going and I have no idea who my companion is. Haha transfers are different from here on out! So when we get calls it just mentions which missionary is getting transferred, and then Tuesday we drive our cars to the mission office in the morning and there we get to find out who our new companion is and where our new area is. I haven't got calls yet for release as a zone leader, so I assume I'm not done yet, but that's alright!

I am going to miss this place like crazy! The land of Madera still owns my heart. I wish I could have stayed for Christmas. I'm pretty bummed about that haha :P. There's so many people here in these last 6 transfers that I've really come to to love and appreciate and I hate to leave them but the Lord needs his missionaries elsewhere. I look forward to my new area and I hope it's still spanish speaking! Most zone leaders, all but 2 or 3, are only english speaking. So we'll see what happens. I haven't cried yet but I'm sure I will haha. As of right now I've been just working and saying goodbye to people and packing. Packing is the worst! Oh well, gotta love being a missionary!

When I heard that Tanner got his mission call to California Fresno Mission I didn't believe it first. I thought it was a joke! I was laughing and cracking because of how crazy that was. I came to believe it was true when Charlie called me haha. That's so awesome!!! He's going to love the CFM! I can't believe I am going to have a first cousin coming in to the mission. Elder Benites and I always talked about what if I were to train him?? That would be sweet! That's like one out of a million right there.

Thanksgiving was an awesome time in Madera! I'm glad I didn't get food poisoning because I ate a lot! Probably too much. I think Thanksgiving day we had 4 or 5 different dinners, and they weren't just 1 plate and done they were basically buffets! I loved the food but I didn't love so much how I felt afterwards. Thanksgiving dinners with Mexicans are the best! Our first dinner was with Federico and Junior's family, the Cervantes Family. We played some pretty intense soccer for a couple hours after we ate dinner and then we went to a few other dinner's with members and Lupe's and Sandra's as well. It was great time! Thanksgiving all weekend! I'll try and send some pictures after I'm finished.

As far as work in the area it felt a little bit slow but we some pretty sweet miracles to share. So L. (B's Grandson) He said yes to being baptized on the 19th of December. He's super excited! And he wants to be a missionary when he grows up. We asked his mom for permission yesterday and she said she still feels that he's too young to be baptized but that if he really wants too that she would let him. It was funny because his mom came to church yesterday because L. invited her. While we were in Sacrament I guess L. leaned over to his sister and told her, "I'm going to be baptized here.". She looked at him like he was crazy saying, "NO! You can't!" his sister told his mom and then his mom was kind of surprised as well. But after we talked about it with her she joked about it and then she's actually considering letting him being baptized... J. L. is like we teach him the lessons and he accepts the doctrines and it's really really easy. At the same time that concerns me because I want him to gain a testimony. We're also helping him to quit drinking and smoking. His baptism date is on Christmas. I look forward to seeing that happen! F. and J. were not able to be baptized :( I'm not sure when. We already talked with their mom about permission and she feels the same way about L.'s mom. So pray that those two will both be baptized in December!

I hope you all had a wonderful week! I have to get going but I look forward to telling you all about my new adventures this upcoming week!
Love Elder Horrocks

p.s. I'll have vanilla for the protein powder
p.s.s. said I could use some weights. Like those bowflex ones that range from 5-60 pounds? If that's okay? If not no worries, I can use bands.
p.s.s.s I laughed so hard at Marz weird al video! Super hilarious! Congrats to them at b-ball by the way!


Elder Horrocks



Dec. 7th

CRAZIEST WEEK EVER!!

Well there you have it! Haha it really has been a crazy week! In a way good/hectic way though. You'll know once I move on through my letter. So to answer the grand question; I got moved to Visalia, yes I'm still a Zone Leader, and my companion's name is Elder Frame. He's awesome! I won't lie though I feel like I just came from Oaxaca Mexico to the United States haha. There's still hispanics here in Visalia but different kinds of hispanics. There's not as many Guayaquilenos (<not sure how you spell that). The majority of the people are from Sinaloa or Jalisco or some other part of Mexico, where as in Madera EVERYONE is from Oaxaca. The community is different too. I went from a small town to a much larger city. Visalia has 180,000 people. And there's malls, fancy restaurants, and all kinds of other things that I haven't seen in 8-9 months. At least anywhere that I've served. I guess Visalia is a lot fancier! I love it so much already it's awesome! The people and members here are so loving and are some of the best I've met! Also what gives Visalia a plus is there's a AA Baseball time that's just 2 or 3 blocks down the road from our apartment. They are the AA team for the Diamondbacks. SWEET!! It's too bad it's not baseball season though haha. There's a lot of cool stuff, but even better the work and the members here are awesome

So let me tell you why we had such a crazy week. We had so many things going on that was forgotten before, it was just nuts! I got here and we did everything we could to get to work but our luck just wasn't working out.  We just had the worst luck of a forgetful mind I don't know what was up! And that's the worst thing to have as a zone leader. A couple examples were things like the truck packet information. (A thing we use to fill up gas and write down miles). Well we had a MLC meeting in Fresno on Friday and we drive to Visalia and we needed to get gas, but when we got to the gas station I open the glove box and realize the packet is gone! Soooooooo we needed that pronto, and we had to drive back to Fresno, get the packet, come back to Visalia again, and thankfully we had enough gas to make the trip. It was awful! Used up a lot of time. OH I can't forget when the next day we had to do stake correlation when we thought it was due on the 13th! Oh man that takes preparation in advance and so it took up our whole day. Haha we just couldn't have a normal day to save our lives. That's the life of a ZL :)

Other than the crazy stuff. We had a great time with our investigators and members! I seriously love them so much and they seem to just make you feel at home. We have one investigator whose name is S. He's super solid and is going to be baptized this month! His date is for the 18th but he has to leave for work soon for like a week so we hope he can come back on his day and be baptized. His other obstacle is just having an understanding of remission of sins after baptism, a better understanding of repentance. Once he get's that he's set! I haven't met all of our investigators yet but from what I've heard there's so many great people out here, and I'm super excited!

Well I gots to go because my time is up. I'm sorry to those I wasn't able to write but I love you all too! Until next week
Love Elder Horrocks

Elder Horrocks



Dec. 14th

Awesome week!

Just so I don't lose track of time I want to start my email now and then read your letters later and then I can answer questions and all of that good stuff! So bear with me cause I want to share as much as I can.

So I'm still getting used to Visalia, especially the area in general whereas it's so big compared to all the other areas I've been to. So I went and bought a GPS! Now we feel so much more effective getting around the place. I forget how different it always feels coming to new areas and getting to know the place... But anyhow, so we started off our week with an awesome Zone Meeting! We were going to do it Tuesday but moved it to Wednesday because a couple companionships got sick, then we moved it to the Thursday because President Clark wanted to come. When everyone heard that they embraced themselves and thought "oh boy!". I guess President Clark's never been to a Zone Meeting in Visalia before.

We found 6 new investigators this week! We were on a roll last week! Hopefully we can keep it going. It was 1-2 new investigators everyday back to back, it was sweet! And it started right after Zone Meeting. One out these 6 has a baptismal date for the 26th of December, and his name is Jairo. Jairo is just a down to earth kind of guy, super cool! We found them through a referral through Elder Corona (my old comp in Tulare). When we received this referral I actually knew who they were! Elder Corona and I found them in Tulare but they just happened to have moved to Visalia. So that was nice for me! Already knowing who our new investigators were going to be haha. When we met up with them I came to find out that Elder Corona had already baptized I believe two or three individuals in the family, but some of them he had not. J. was one of those! He has a cool story. He came to rock bottom at one point and realized he needed to make some changes. With faith he left behind his drugs, alcohol, and whatever other bad habits he had and he started reading the Book of Mormon with one of the family members named B. That's when he quit using drugs and continued looking for God. When we met up with him we just knew right there and then that he was prepared! So we set a date with him for baptism and he says he wants to serve a mission! Well he's 25 and when he told us we were just like "Yeah that'd sweet! you should totally do it!", but then we come to find out that he has a 2 year old son... Man!! Elder Frame and I were so excited because we thought we were going to baptize a future missionary! But it broke our hearts knowing he can't because he has his son. So we haven't broke it to him yet, but when we teach him about missionary work we will. So anyway, that's J. for you! Then we have Saul, he's in Mexico but he'll be baptized so just pray that he can come back safe so that he can be baptized. As for the other 5 investigators, they're great! The people in Visalia are just great! 3 of them are the A. family and we actually went to their quincenera! (Keen-sen-yera). A quincenera is kind of like when english people have sweet 16's, but in the hispanic culture "quince" is 15 and so they celebrate their 15th birthday.Our investigator E. was the one turning 15. I'm not sure why but that's their thing. And so we went!. And it was the first one I've been to. I'll send some pics after

Thursday we had a service project for a woman who was doing a thing called "Toys for Tots". It's all military based. We went and helped out for a few hours organizing kids toys and a lot of other cool stuff. It was fun! We had our church activity and we played Mafia. I know my family is familiar with that! It reminded me of when we used to play. After, we tied the game into the gospel and asked how that game applies to us. The principle was choose wisely. It was kind of a cheesy lesson, but whatever it was fun activity!

Had Stake conference Friday and Saturday. It was my 4th one in the mission. I always love Stake conferences because it's a great opportunity to hear from awesome speakers and feel the spirit. We had 3 of our new investigators come to Stake Conference. They loved it! It was great insight for them. It only goes up for them from here!

Hopefully there was good insight for all you back home! I have short time right now but just want to let you all know that I love you! Merry Christmas! And if anyone has not watched the new christmas video go and see it now! It's awesome! I know that a Savior was and is essential to God's eternal plan. So I invite everyone to share "A Savior is born". And help someone else discover why he was born, and why he came and a ransom for us. 16 million people have seen this video in a matter of 3 weeks and the work of the Lord is spreading.

https://www.mormon.org/christmas

Love ya!


Answers to Questions:
- Rawhide is the name of the baseball team that's next to our apartment
-We got the banana bread! Super good!
-Don't know about skype yet but I will know this week. We have one member who says they'll let us borrow their computer.

p.s. Congrats to the Cougs! That's an awesome keep tearing it up!! Tell Wes and Mar the same.

Elder Horrocks

Monday, November 30, 2015

Here are 3 weeks of letters.  I hate when I get this far behind!!  The letters are great and he has been loving the mish!  There are tons of pictures to catch up on too.  SORRY!!  It's crazy how much can happen in 3 weeks.

He had a wonderful Thanksgiving with his "other" family.  I also heard from them last night and found out he's being transferred :'(  I always feel this way at transfers!!  I'm sooo sad!  They're so sad!!  And right before Christmas and his birthday??  I trust the Lord.  He knows what he's doing and Alex will go to the new area and touch the lives of those there.  I just don't know them yet.  SO although I am broken hearted he's leaving them, I am also very mindful that I have been blessed and so has he.  He will do great things in his new area.  I'll find out in his letter today.  I will also try to post it ASAP as to not keep you all hanging.


I also had the awesome experience of going to the temple with Charlie (One of his first baptisms and closest friends from the mish).  It was an amazing thing to be a part of.  Al was sad he couldn't be there but he is so proud of him also!  I got to meet a TON of returned missionaries that he knew and served with.  I also met a couple of momma's.  We're already planning reunions for everyone.

Enjoy...  Sorry about the letter and picture overload :) hahaha!!  No such thing right??? ;)




On our way to the football field 
The field

The game

 Our boy R. B! Sorry it's a bit blurry

Card board that covers the turkey's

Covering the turkey's with dirt

Hanging out in the back garden eating oranges

After we dug out the turkey's 

Seasoning the turkey's 

Me with a turkey

Puttin turkey's in the ground

Elder Flores and I

Pit of turkey's

Halloween party!

Playing Charades 

Roberto's Helmet (I can't believe they put that thing on!! LOL! Football gear STINKS)


Thanksgiving Dinner


Gift to his family :)  (they sent me a picture of it)
She said at first we thought they were grateful for themselves LOL.  Then they read the back...
Translated: The best family in the world.
We love you a lot!
We're very grateful for you guys!
You're our family!

Sparkling Cider gun???

Sparkling Cider
Ward Thanksgiving Dinner

Alex and Layla... She's going to miss Elder Horrocks

They invited them Christmas tree shopping when they found out they were being transferred :(


Charlie and all the missionaries

Group Pic

Charlie and Sister Avina (She lived in Alex's apartment building and in his ward in Lindsey)

Far Left: Kevin Nye (Al's MTC companion and also in the field.  He served the most time with him. About 6 months)
Far Right: Courtney Wilkins. (Alex was her zone leader and played the guitar at the farewell when she came home) 


Another group pictures :)  Great day!



Nov. 9th

Hola!!

I'm actually not sure at all what you mean by the church policies in California? What's going on there? I never hear what was going on. We normally don't hear about those things out here in the mish... And I do know Sisters Schillimet and Johnson! I didn't hear about the story though, I'll have to ask around about it. That's an awesome experience and Sister missionaries are a pretty powerful force, especially in the CFM, they really change peoples lives!

So Basketball is just around the corner? I bet it's going to be a fun season! Who's the new coach? For the boys and girls? That's so crazy because I can remember almost a whole year ago talking about basketball season, and also hearing about the torture practices that Weston was having haha. There's always a bad year for something but hey it's in the past. New coach, new everything! Just have a fun year!

I'm super stoked for Charlie to be going through the temple! I wonder if Kevin Nye and Kacen Moody are going to be there? Those two were some of the best companions I've had, and they loved Charlie! Well tell him I'm jealous and that I wish I could be there to go through with him. Can't believe it's been a year since he's been baptized, he's growing up! Haha

Hey if it helps Mar, I didn't letter in Basketball until my senior year. So she's definitely doing a lot better than I was as far as lettering in a sport. Playing as a freshman on varsity is pretty good!

Real quick. I'd think it'd be sweet to have a road trip from the mish back home but I just don't know how that all can work out, because I also want to see everyone, but let me know when you talk with Dad so I can know what's up.

Well let's see... We had a really really busy week! As always, great things are happening and continue to happen. I don't really talking about meetings all that much in my letters but this week we had an MLC meeting (mission leadership council) and wow it was intense! Yeah I would definitely say we're a pretty obedient mission but we just have so much more to give. We talk about obedience, or even exact obedience in the mission, but there's more! To me it's almost like trying to be perfect, but not even that just having a real urgency to do all you can, and if we mess up we can repent. The attitude that we've been looking for is being exactly obedient even in the littlest things, repenting if we mess up, and then strive to prevent disobedience. God can only give us so much if we do what he says, but if we don't then we don't have any promises (D&C 82:10). It's hard to explain because it's a missionary thing but we've come short on some goals and it's because we're not exactly obedient. I don't know where else you can be exactly obedient other than the mission! It's hard as a normal member to have that kind of mindset. But wow there's a spirit brooding about our mission about ex. obedience. It's such a powerful thing to see when all the missionaries are on board to be exactly obedient. Miracles only come by obedience, and as missionaries, we seek the miracle of conversion.

Anyways... So we actually had some fun events along with missionary work. We've been working with a less active family name The B. Family. They're a less active family and we've found a little bit through them. The mom was a relief society president a few years back and her and her husband have been sealed in the temple. I believe they've been sealed to their 6 children too? I'm not really sure. But they came back to church and people were lining up to come and see them. They've missed them so much and it's been about 3 or 4 years since they came to church. It was so cool to see how much the people loved and missed this family! So see we help out in the retention too. We went to the B. son's football game this past Friday to watch him play. He plays on J.V. but he's a big kid and some of these kids in Cali are huge! It was fun night though and they played really well, we only got to watch the first half. We heard they lost 26 to 20 but that varsity won 55-30. It made me miss watching/playing in high school games back home.

U. has his first calling! We just found out yesterday that he was called to be the YM secretary. He's going to be great! It's going to be fun to watch him see how he does.

Our investigators and people were teaching are doing really well. We set two baptismal dates for the 28th of November this past week through less active members. They're two kids, F. and H. It's funny how we found them. We tried to go visit a different less active member but coming to the house and seeing the family it was definitely not the family we expected, but they just so happened to be less active and have been wanting to baptize their children for some time. The only obstacle is the kids Biological mom, she doesn't want them being baptized. We'll be meeting the mom today so pray that the spirit will touch her heart and she'll let them be baptized. M. is another investigator who Elder Benites was teaching back in his last area in Clovis. She's more american than spanish, she's a cowgirl! We did some service for her this past week on her horse ranch in her backyard. It was great! She's definitely progressing and has been to church four times. It's sad though cause we might have to pass her off to the english elders... H. is still in the process of getting his marriage license. We'll see what happens. His baptismal date is for the 19th of December... The others are doing great as well. We're just focusing on setting dates and finding. We found a family named The T.! They're a big family of like 6 or 7. They can definitely be baptized, especially the daughter in particular. Her name is C. and she seems really receptive to us.

Well I only have a few minutes and I will answer your questions about Christmas and all that other stuff in a separate email today and send some pics from Halloween and from this past week. I love ya'll!! I wish you a great week.

Love


Elder Horrocks




Nov. 16th

Good week!

Weeks just fly! And they go faster and faster all the time. I don't really like it haha. So I'm going to go and jump right into the week!

Monday we were able to teach F. and J. They're great kids! They're so ready to be baptized but they just need the permission from their mother.

Tuesday we had our Zone Meeting. It's crazy how fast those meetings come and how much trainings we've had to give. It was an awesome zone meeting and everyone was very edified and uplifted! I learned a lot myself of what I can do to become a more complete missionary. I remember one of the trainings given by our District Leaders was about giving correction out of love and one of the senior couples in our Zone stood up and said "This principle will help you with marriage!". I laughed and thought that was funny. I definitely did not see it that way. I guess if you really put it into perspective, missions really do prepare you for life and for eternity. It's brilliant how the Lord does it too. What better place than a mission to prepare for those things! I also was able to go on a exchanges and normally miracles happen on exchanges. And a miracle did happen! I don't know if I mentioned last week but we found a little family. I think I said they were the T. family but they're actually the M. family. We found their Dad, his name's C. and we're teaching him now. He offered the kneeling prayer at the end and he did awesome! They're a good family, they just have a hard time understanding everything. We were able to see G. Tuesday also! We invited her to be baptized for the 9th of December. She said that she'll think on it. She read the Book of Mormon like we asked! We'll see where she goes from here. We had an appointment with her today but it fell through.

Wednesday was tough. My companion got sick! What's worst is that Zone Conference was the next day. There's just some kind of luck in Madera where someone gets sick during important events. I know exactly how he felt! We're supposed to go to the Ramate or in other words the flea market with some members. We were going to talk with everyone there and see if there was potentials.

Thursday Elder Benites was feeling a lot better! We went and watched the Testaments movie with the B. family. They're starting to love the gospel again, it's amazing to watch! Sister B. cried. She hadn't seen the movie before. The spirit continues to bring the family back closer to Heavenly Father... Friday. Sports night!! We weren't sure how big our event was going to be but we had a whole bunch of non-members come! We brought investigators to play soccer for an hour and then we'd play volleyball. We have a member named Fernando Ruiz who's on the high school volleyball team. We asked him to invite a few friends and he brought like 15-20 friends! It was kind of a shock haha. Some kids were on the high school team but there were 3 or 4 who were on a college team. They burned us!! It went from fun soccer to volleyball death haha but it was really fun! We were totally tired after that night... We also met F. and J.'s mom that night. We didn't ask her for permission to baptize her kids yet (we'll be doing that today) but we just got to know her! We just befriended her and she's actually really cool! I don't see why she didn't let her kids be baptized before, but we'll see what happens tonight. We had Zone Conference on Thursday also. Awesome conference! I always love Zone Conferences

Saturday we went and watched F. and J. play soccer. They're really good! The soccer community out here is excellent. I've never really liked soccer before but on my mission I've learned to like it enough. It's just a culture thing for the hispanics! So they're really good out here in Cali. I think that they tied their game. I forgot to take pictures! I apologize for that! They have a tournament on this upcoming Saturday. Hopefully we can go watch that and I can get pics then.

Sunday! Sunday is game day as a missionary. And a miracle happened! The B. brought their non member grandchild! His name is L. and he's our new investigator. I think he's 13 years old. But it was another testimony to me that these less actives are so precious. And they are where the fish are!

I have to head out but I love you all and thank your letters! They're awesome!

Love Elder Horrocks

P.S. Tell Charlie and Paul I said hi! It's so cool to see them with the family

Elder Horrocks



Nov. 23rd

Hey so I'm sorry but I have to get going here in about 20 minutes or so to a turkey bowl in Hanford and so I have to make this letter really fast. I feel so bad because I feel like there was a lot of good stuff that happened this weekend and just through the week in general.

I'm happy to hear that everyone's doing good! This week was fun. We had a ward get together and had like a early thanksgiving dinner this past Saturday. We went to go help cook the turkeys with the members early Saturday morning, and it was so cool how they did it! They dug a pit to fit about 10 turkeys and there was a hot coal and rock on the bottom. We gutted the turkeys, put some seasoning on them, wrapped them in tinfoil, put them in a tray, and then threw them in the pit. Then we covered them with wet cardboard box and then covered it with the extra dirt from the ground. The steam and heat is what cooked the turkeys, and in about 4 hours ALL the turkeys were cooked and fresh! We are totally doing that when I come home next thanksgiving!!! I'm not sure if anyone's ever heard of that or ever done that back home, but wow!! The hispanic culture knows what's up!

Our investigators are doing great! F. and J. still have their baptism this next Sunday. And we set one last night and the day before with two people named J. L. and L. B. (grandson of the B. family). It was cool because they were both miracles!! Especially the J. L. guy. But I'll tell you all more about that later. I gotta go!

I love you all! Have a great thanksgiving!!

p.s. shirt size is a 15 1/2 (for church shirts)
p.s.s exchanges happen before christmas FYI